I’m excited to my friend, fellow Military Spouse, author, and speaker, Kristi Woods, visiting My Messy Desk today. She shares about how she has overcome a MESS made by a trial in her life. If you haven’t read her Word Nerd Wednesday post on the topic, you definitely should!
Keeping Focus on the Pillar, Not the Problems
by: Kristi Woods
And the Lord went before them by day in a pillar of cloud to lead them along the way, and by night in a pillar of fire to give them light, that they might travel by day and by night.
Exodus 13:21 ESV
“I have an interview in Oklahoma,” my husband blurted.
My stomach knotted. Our eyes met – his seemingly searching mine for a temperature reading, mine searching his in utter surprise.
I will never move to Oklahoma!
It was my long-standing, vehement, self-proclaimed cry. The prairies and rolling hills of his home state were beautiful. They weren’t my home, however, and in the past, I determined to never allow them opportunity.
I looked down at the bedroom floor. A sigh escaped. Thoughts screamed through my mind.
The God-girl in me knew of safe harbor – running to the Lord in prayer. A big dollop of selfishness, however, contended for a sprint far, far away.
Just say no, the thoughts coerced. It’s that easy.
The internal banter swung back and forth. The situation proved anything but easy.
“Well, I guess we should pray about it,” I whispered.
We’d been through several relocations, but this time I suspected I already knew God’s answer of “where”.
A few weeks later, we hailed farewell to North Carolina, waving a cautious hello to Oklahoma. The transition seemed smooth.
But then tough times ensued, trials erupted, and I stumbled in a MESS of questions and confusion.
God, did we really hear you?
Two of our three kids didn’t adjust well. Friendships failed to form. Finding a church home proved daunting, let alone a youth group. Emotions swirled. We were a MESS!
The kids mourned North Carolina, glancing back at her offerings often. I mourned right alongside them, sometimes even leading with a fresh round of tears.
Why aren’t things connecting?
Lord, I don’t like it here! The kids are suffering.
Why couldn’t we just stay in North Carolina?
Grumbles grew. Complaints mounted. Discontentment’s dark cloud lingered precariously close. The trial seemed to be pulling us under.
My jargon echoed that of the Israelites journeying toward the Promised Land, the same Israelites called to simply trust and follow the pillar of fire – God Almighty.
The Lord saved them and had plans in sight. He knew the way. A good land waited. But the Israelites’ forgot his faithful promises and provision, offering trust to grumbling amid the trials.
They took their focus off the pillar and placed it on their problems.
Where is the water? We’re thirsty!
I’m tired of this manna. Can’t we have something different?
Our kids, what about our kids? They’re suffering!
Things were good in Egypt. Why can’t we go back?
It’s easy to grumble, isn’t it? When circumstances look bleak, frustrations rise, or disappoints fall heavy, it’s tempting to hold hands with those wandering Israelites. Mindlessly, we trudge the pathway of discontent alongside them.
But what if we keep our eyes on the pillar of fire – God, not problems?
What if we allow his Spirit to lovingly wrap us in revelation versus wallowing in our own discontent?
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What if we slip from complaining lips to proclaiming praise?
Could our trials be a footing for faith as we snuggle into spiritual growth, versus sprinting far away from the challenge, grumbles in tow?
Our circumstances might not change, but we will when we trust our Lord. Often, unwelcomed trials like the Israelites faced are simply God opportunities for growth.
Oklahoma became that for me. God unearthed the hidden deceit, the tangled web of complaints and grumbles. He lifted the weight of discontent, leaving a reservoir of peace.
Grumbles still tempt me from time to time, but instead of placing trust in them, I choose to trust in God. In place of grumbling, words like these now hit the airwaves:
Thank you, Lord, for answering our prayer. You are a faithful God.
Thank you, Lord, for Oklahoma. You lead well.
This land, Oklahoma, is beautiful, Lord. Your creation here is good.
Your provision is beyond compare. Praise you!
I trust you, Lord.
It’s quite a difference. Then again, keeping focus on the pillar and not our problems will stir a difference in any of us.
A Prayer to Share:
You are good and faithful. Your ways are right. I desire to trust you by day and night, to keep my focus on you. Lord, if there is any hidden discontent in my life, please reveal it and forgive me. Lord, I will walk in your ways wherever you lead. I’ll follow You, my Pillar. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Kristi Woods is a writer and speaker passionate about seeing women walk deeper with God. She clicks her words of encouragement atwww.KristiWoods.net regularly and is published in Chicken Soup for the Soul: Dreams and Premonitions, at Proverbs 31 and Life Letter Cafe as well as on various blogs. Kristi, her retired-from-the-military husband, and their three children survived a nomadic lifestyle and have now set roots in Oklahoma. Connect with Kristi here: Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest.
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